No my Mom lives about 100 km from Bochum and my dad further north (they are divorced). Its not that close to Lübeck (anything above Frankfurt is north for me
) but from here it would be about 8 hours to Lübeck and from there it is just 1,5 hours by train. So I leave my Dad, and instead of going home directly go to Lübeck and then at four in the morning head homewards to Heidelberg. Will be a little present for myself as Paganfest was so awful.